My Final Book Reading List for 2011

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Here are the books that I read in 2011 and a short thought about them (Listed in order of when I read them through the year):

1) Sun Stand Still by Steven Furtick:
- Very challenging and inspiring book, especially for church planters. Good practical as well as philosophical thoughts and approaches to life and ministry.

2) Love Wins by Rob Bell
- Interesting read. Nice thoughts at times. Mostly regurgitation of other people’s thoughts. No real original scholarship. What scholarship there was, it seemed to poor.

3) Passion is Not Enough by Greg Darley
- Really good read, especially if you want to do something great. Fantastic practical steps and insights to achieve big goals.

4) Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by JK Rowling
- Heartwarming, fun read. Fantastic start for the journey. This book really does set the foundation for the series well. Its all about the trio: Harry, Ron, and Hermione overcoming obstacles. That is the truth of the series.

5) Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets by JK Rowling
- Starts introducing you to more of the story. Intricate details emerge for later. Great, fun read.

6) Crazy Love by Francis Chan
- Radical, yet biblical approach to life and relationship with Christ. Didn’t blow me away like it did others.

7) Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban by JK Rowling
- New story elements that keep building the immensity of the story. Such fun.

7) Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by JK Rowling
- The story goes to a whole new level. The villain has returned. The plans of both sides are set in motion. The good guys experience death. The kids experiences love and loss.

9) Harry Potter and The Order of the Phoenix by JK Rowling
- Very fun book. For the most part the book is a very necessary filler. It creates depth for all the sub-characters, and connects them in strength to the story as a whole. The final chapters of the book reconnect back to the whole story. This is the first place where your emotions get really involved. The bad guys again thwarted in their short-term plans, but the good guys experience tragedy.

10) Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by JK Rowling
- Its the opening act to the end. You get to plainly see where you are headed with the story. Its superbly written and my second favorite book of the series. Once again, your emotions run high, and I for one shed a tear reading it.

11) Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows by JK Rowling
The perfect book. The perfect ending. Fantastic. Brilliant. The intricacies that been woven throughout come back together here. There is completion, friendship, love, loss, hurt, pain, death, victory, and new life. It is by far the best book of the series and one of the best books I have ever read.

12) Prodigal God by Tim Keller
- The best Christian book I read this year. Purely wonderful. Reaches deep, cuts away the excuses, provides hope. Wonderful.

13) Christian Atheist by Craig Groeschel
Very good. Worth the read for all believers, especially those in ministry. Practical insight, and heartfelt instruction.

14) Hound of the Baskervilles by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
My first venture into the life of Sherlock Holmes. Will not be my last. Very enjoyable!

15) He is There, He is Not Silent by Francis Schaeffer
Never has a book so small been so good and at the same time so difficult to read. Bring along a dictionary.

16) The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins
Great book. I love the story and the premise. I had heard a lot about it before I read it and I was not disappointed!

17) Catching Fire by Suzanne Collins
WOW! Just wow… Better than the first book. Very great. Perfect continuation of the story. Its a lot like Empire Strikes Back in that its one of the rare situations where the sequel is better than the original.

18) Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins
Good book and I loved it until the last three chapters. Then it was like she realized she was running out of time and threw it all together at the end. Really disappointed with the way it ended. I enjoyed the resolution but the way it happened was weak!

19) Quidditch Through the Ages by JK Rowling
Fun little supplemental book to the Harry Potter series.  A lot of fun.

20) Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them by JK Rowling
Ditto.

21) The Bro Code by Barney Stinson
Given to me by a bro a few years ago. Very funny. Not spiritually uplifting at all. Not all bad though.

22) Tales of Beadle the Bard by JK Rowling
The wizarding fairy tales introduced in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. Akin to Aesop’s fables in that they are fantasy with a moral story to them. Nice.

Favorite Movie Characters – Heroes

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Welcome to the second installment of my favorite movie characters. This one is on the “Heroes.”

Heroes are such for a number of reasons. They are selfless. They are courageous. They fight for a cause. They love deeply. They give all of themselves to protect the weak and others. Again, these aren’t necessarily the greatest, but they’re my favorite!

So here they are:

V (V for Vendetta) played by Hugo Weaving

Its hard to have a hero who is anti-everthing, but V pulled it off. The world and government that the movie created for him to fight against was a form of oppression that you couldn’t help but hate. Hugo Weaving, who never showed his face in the entire movie, gives such an emotional performance that you forget you are looking at a mask at times. He truly does become the embodiment of righteousness within a display of anarchy. Its a role of contradiction that rarely works, but definitely did here…

Han Solo (Star Wars) played by Harrison Ford

Come on. Dude shot first. And beyond that, who doesn’t love a good guy, turned scoundrel, turned good guy again for the right cause (and right girl)? Han Solo is the guy you wanted to be growing up. He has the coolest best friend, (an 8-foot tall walking carpet with a bad attitude), to coolest ship (it can do the Kessel Run in 8 par-secs, which truthfully makes no sense…), he blows crap up (take that energy field generator), and he gets the girl (love the hair buns). We love the guy!

Not to mention when, as he is possibly going to his death, his girl says, “I love you.” he responds with, “I know.” Holy crickets how bad man was that?!?! Oh to be that cool…

Maximus Decimus Maridius (Gladiator) played by Russel Crowe

There are two words that best describe Maximus – man’s game. Man’s game! Dude is beast. He goes off and fights wars. He is right hand man to the king. He loves his wife and son more than anything. He gets screwed over by a jealous, punk kid. He becomes a slave and still runs the world around him. He wins the crowds. He overcomes the king. He sets the world right. He frees his friends. He is reunited with his family. WHAT BETTER STORY IS THERE?

Seriously, dont we all truly want that life? Let me go fight my battles and do what I can for the great cause, but when its over let me go home to my wife and kids and live a peaceful life. Maximus was great because he was not a man who chose blood, he was a man who preferred peace. But he did what he must when he must. Why go looking for trouble when I can live at peace in harmony with my family? Maximus is one of my favorite character ever. and Gladiator is one of my five favorite movies.

My only thoughts on Occupy Wall Street

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I won’t even begin to say I understand the economics involved in the “Tax the Rich vs. Don’t Tax the Rich” debate. I will also say that I don’t understand and frankly couldn’t give a rat’s stinky butt about the politics. None of that stuff matters to me. I really don’t care. The economics would be fascinating if I knew it was hard science. Unfortunately, economics, like everything else is politically tainted and it is impossible to find an objective position. So I won’t address it.

Here is, however, what I will address: the Christian response to the Occupy Wall Street movement.

As I understand it, the entire dialogue stems from a perception (probably accurate) of corporate greed. It is assumed that the vast majority of the riches individuals in America are greedy. And because of their greed they are unwilling to pay what some perceive to be their fair share of America’s financial responsibilities. Of course, there is no clearly defined notion of what a “fair share” is. The richest Americans are already paying a higher percentage of taxes than the rest of America, but apparently, according to the protestors this isn’t enough. I also understand that it goes MUCH deeper than this. But the general feeling is that these Americans, some of which fell into family money and privilege, others of which worked harder than 99% of the protestors to get where they are today, should share. For not wanting to share they are considered greedy.

There is this great passage of scripture in the Gospels. Its found in Matthew 7:1-6. It says…

“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye. Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.”

Jesus makes some very strong statements here concerning the judging of others. The thing about it is that He is particularly making statements concerning judging people for doing the same thing they themselves are doing. What has gripped my heart so strongly during these past two months or so of protests is the way many Christians have been thoroughly up in arms, on both sides. In my opinion, both sides are extremely greedy!

Let’s start by looking at those on the side of the protestors. Is there corporate greed going on? Absolutely. Should we encourage those who have the most to give to and help those who have the least? Without question. Is it not proven that many major corporations subjugate people around the world in order to make a higher profit margin, in turn circumventing American workers causing the problem to be exacerbated locally? No doubt. Are they being greedy? Unquestionably.

And so, because of this great injustice they are perpetrating, you cry out and judge them. They should be taking care of others. They should be helping the little guy. Thats the right thing to do. So at what point do you need to start being responsible for those around you? Is it only if you are economically well off that you are responsible to help? Are you free and clear from responsibilities until then?

In the book of Acts, regular every-day members of the church frequetnly decided of their own free will to sell many if not most of their possessions in order to provide for the poor and needy among them in the church. The different churches would also take up offerings and send them to other cities to take care of the needy there. And the first people they took care of were people in the family of God. So in light of this I ask you:

  1. When was the last time you sold something you have in order to help out a hurting fellow Christian?
  2. When have you been generous with a missionary, church planter, or fellow congregant of your local church?
  3. Are you as passionate about your fellow Christ-follower and the plight they are working through as you are the stranger on the street?

There are those who are STRUGGLING within your local church and you are complaining at Wall Street when you could be doing something about it yourself. Get the plank out of YOUR EYE! Stop telling sinners how to live. You’re casting your pearls before swine. They can’t be right into righteousness. Making them act in one area like Jesus will not make them like Jesus. You are wasting your time. Help those you can help. Help your friends. Help your fellow family members in Christ. Help the poor everywhere, including the ones sitting on the pew next to you.

But now let’s also look on the other side. There are those who don’t feel like the higher bracket should be taxed. They don’t feel like it is the job of the rich, or the government, to take care of the less fortunate. It is the job of the church. They feel the economics and political strategizing bear out to a fair and biblical stance on sowing and reaping. And that though some have had legs up along the way, generally if you work hard you can accomplish whatever you want. And if you do that you should be able to keep your money.

A number of places in the gospels we see people who when confronted with Christ immediately make financial restitution. Zacheaus gave back everything he had taken above what he was supposed to and repayed people above and beyond what he had taken. Jesus specifically told one man to sell all he had and follow him. Following that man’s disappointment, Jesus’ response was that it is “easier for a camel to get through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter heaven.” We have no idea how the rich young ruler got his money, only that it was a barrier between He and God. And once again, in the book of Acts, people who had more than others willingly and freely responded to the need and gave sacrificially to take care of others. Finally, the greatest example of a right heart when it comes to money is the story of the poor woman who gave all she had, two little pennies, to God. The rich men standing by mocked her meager gift in light of their substantial one. Yet Christ said because she sacrificed and gave, her gift was so much greater. So I ask you…

  1. When in the history of the world has the church been able to handle all the poor people without the assistance of the state?
  2. When was the last time you gave sacrificially, or was it just out of your abundance?
  3. Do you give anywhere near what poorer people give to great causes percentage wise?

Get the plank out of YOUR EYES! Stop judging those who want others to give when you yourself are not giving? Are you even tithing? Do you support any missionaries? Stop casting your pearls before swine and associating with people who lie, cheat, and swindle others. Its not cool, and its not Christlike.

Here is the problem: WE ARE ALL GREEDY! One side wants someone else’s money to take care of the problem. The other side doesn’t want to give away their excess. NEITHER SIDE IS WILLING TO GIVE!

SO SHUT UP, GET OUT YOUR WALLET, SEND A MISSIONARY/CHURCH PLANTER/OR THE DUDE ON THE PEW NEXT TO YOU A CHECK AND BE THE CHURCH!

Its time to bare each other’s burdens, not matter who we are and no matter who they are. Then, if YOU are taking care of the people around YOU, maybe its ok to throw in a little social critique every once in a while.

Favorite Movie Characters – Bad Guys

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I have been wanting to write a four blog series on my favorite movie characters. They will be broken into four groups: Bad Guys, Heroes, Best Friends, and Hero’s Hero.

I am not making a claim that any of these should be listed as the greatest characters in film history, but they are my favorite, and here’s why…

We’ll start with the Bad Guys.

The bad guys are just so much fun. Especially these three. And each of these actors absolutely deserve Oscars for each of these roles, and one of them was awarded it.

Hans Gruber (Die Hard) played by Alan Rickman

The dude is so cool. Wearing an Armani suit, walking up in this bank on Christmas, taking on John McClane. Die Hard is actually my favorite Christmas movie, next to Buddy the Elf and Muppet Christmas Carol.

Hans Gruber is a character that you know has won before and should win this time, and you hate it that you know he isn’t. And then there is that amazing look of stark fear in the moment he knows he is going to die that was FANTASTIC!

Alan Rickman who plays Gruber will actually appear again in this blog series. He is without a doubt my favorite British actor, and should have a couple of Oscars under his belt…

Carnegie (Book of Eli) played by Gary Oldman

If you are a fan of anything theological or church world, how can you not know someone (hopefully not NEARLY as evil) but that reminds you of this guy? I mean, he is greedy, selfish, and knows just enough Bible to misinterpret it, use it, and abuse it. He is so deliciously evil and manipulative. He is the perfect villain because you almost feel for him at times, and in the dark parts of your heart identify with him.

Gary Oldman, who is my other favorite British actor, has also been in a ton of other movies, and it is a CRIME he has never earned an Oscar. JFK, The Dark Knight, The Fifth Element, Lost in Space, Air Force One, and Dracula just to name a few of his most famous roles.

The Joker (The Dark Knight) played by Heath Ledger

Not my favorite evil character of all-time (thats a war still waging between Darth Vader and Lord Voldemort) but my favorite movie bad guy. Period. Heath Ledger acted out of his MIND for this roll. He is perfect. The is the personification of evil, insanity, sociopathic imbalances make him the best bad guy ever! I mean, what more could he have done?

Ledger, who some said only earned the Oscar as a result of his death, deserved that award hands-down. Unfortunately, it may have been his complete embodiment of the role that led, in part, to his death.

So, thoughts? Disagreements? Suggestions? Join the conversation!

Developing a Missional Strategy for Church Planting part 4

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Sorry its been about a month since I posted. With the launch of our church and my taking a part-time job, things have kind of gotten busy. Where was I? Oh yeah…

The next thing you need to do in developing a missional strategy for your church/ministry is understanding you brand. Purpose is one of the first things we normally develop and find when it comes to our ministries. We want to know and be able to explain to other why we exist and do what it is we do. But when we figure out who we are, we need to be able to relate it and illustrate it to those others around you.

Your brand is very important. It communicates who you say you are to your culture and neighborhood. Your brand incorporates your logo, your website, your print material, social media, and all other mediums in which people come in contact with your church/ministry. So here is a list of tips concerning your branding:

  • Have a good logo. Something that is creative, attractive, simple, and easily relatable by the people in your neighborhood. It needs to be something that can be put on a sign, letterhead, business cards, website, etc. It is something that people should be able to be proud of and excited about.
  • Have a good website. Now when I say good, I mean GOOD. The best thing you can do for your website is NOT COMPARE it to other churches. Compare your website to the most creative companies in the world. We are NEVER satisfied with our website. We don’t want the best church website in the world. We want the best website of any kind! It needs to be simple, creative, user friendly, seeker and member usable.
  • Use the same colors and fonts throughout. This presents a consistent and professional look. Pick colors that are in your logo or complimentary colors and use them. Use the same fonts throughout the website and all your promotional materials.
  • Make sure that all ministries connect to and reflect your brand. If you have children’s and youth ministries, whatever their logos and names are, make sure that there is an obvious branding connection back into the church as a whole. You need to make sure that early on kids and teens feel connected to the life of the overarching church. By having a connected brand you make a subconscious connection in the minds of the young people.

For further information that is VERY helpful, read Church Marketing 101 by Richard Reising.

 

 

Dealing with Disappointment

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In life and in ministry, you will have disappointments. If you haven’t realized that by now, may God have mercy on your soul! But it is something we should expect. Hard times are normal for everyone, but especially the follower of Jesus.

John 16:33 says,

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

John 15:18 says,

“If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you.

Knowing this, how do we deal with the frustrations and all of these disappointments?

1) Recognize you are disappointed. It is ok to be upset when things do not go your way. We put our emotions into our efforts. At times we stake our lives and reputations on whatever it is we are doing. When we fall short or are denied our goal, it hurts. It is ok and even good to recognize and acknowledge your hurt. If you ignore it you may end up invalidating what it is you are trying to do. If it wasn’t important to you then you would be headlong into it. So if you face walls, obstacles, hurdles, and speed bumps, acknowledge them for what they are and what they have done to you.

2) Allow yourself time to feel disappointed. Give yourself some time to grieve. And it doesn’t matter how large or small the disappointment is, you need time to grieve it. If its a small one, give yourself 15 minutes to an hour. Lay in your floor at home with some music playing, and just wallow in self-pity. It’s ok, I, the random blog writer, gives you permission. If its a bigger disappointment, take a couple of hours. If its a life changing, life affecting disappointment, take a few days or even a week. There is no shame in grieving.

3) Remember what God has spoken to you. But once you have finished grieving, put it aside and move on. The best way to do that is to remember what God has spoken to you. What promises has He given you? What dreams has He placed in your heart that are worth potentially going through all this disappointment again because they are worth it. Now is the time to refocus on those things and embrace his destiny for you.

4) Remember that Christ has overcome it all. Finally, realize that all of these things are no hill for you. They are temporary setbacks, and that is all they can ever be, because Christ who lives in us has already overcome it all. Christ who is our head and LORD has already destroyed the works of the enemy and made them futile towards us. As a matter of fact, the scriptures say not only has he destroyed them, he made a mockery of the enemy, a public spectacle of him.

Colossians 2: 15 says referring to Christ’s triumph over all,

“He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.”

So if He who lives in us and gives His Holy Spirit to empower us has made a spectacle, a mockery of those who would try to derail us, then we can know with all faith and confidence that these disappointments are fleeting. They are a part of being counted worthy to participate in Christ’s life and ministry, which is an award of great honor.

James 1:2-4 sums it up nicely with this,

“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

Developing a Missional Strategy for Church Planting part 3

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About a month into the church planting process, nearly two years ago, I heard Craig Groeschel, author of Christian Atheist and pastor of LifeChurch.tv speak at the Christian Leadership Forum at Southeastern University. He was talking about the things that God calls some churches to do. His premise was that God has a unique plan for every church in a city. The problem is that very few churches every ask God what it is that He wants from them. They assume and then act under those assumptions concerning God’s plan for them, most often merely replicating what other churches are doing. Inevitably, there will always be overlap in churches. Every church is going to have a worship service. But as Groeschel explains, every church is in the neighborhood or city it is in for a reason.

He told the story, and I believe I am retelling it correctly, of when he decided this for LifeChurch. They were a large church of around 2,000 adherents and he decided they needed to change into the church God wanted them to be, no more, no less. They prayed and felt like there were 5 things the LORD wanted from their church. They began to cut every ministry that did not fall into those 5 areas. It didn’t mean they weren’t good ministries, they just were not a ministry that was supposed to be happening in their church. As I remember, he says that they lost about 40% of their church membership over the next 6 months as a result of these changes. A decade or so later now LifeChurch is extremely healthy, having made a huge impact not only in their neighborhood but also the entire state of Oklahoma with campus locations and churches worldwide through their free resources. They also run in excess of 15,000 people…

Upon hearing this, I began to pray about what God wanted for our church. Truth be told, why would God want all churches doing the same things? If we are one body, and one baptism, then He has to look at us as one church in spite of our denominational and other differences. All churches in a city make up the reflection of Christ and His kingdom in that city. It only makes sense that He would want different churches doing different things in order to ensure the city is covered in Kingdom business.

With my church, I have felt like we were suppose to do 3 things. These three things make up our mission statement, our praxis, and our spiritual growth plan. They are 1) Worship Experience, 2) Small Groups, 3) Service Oriented Ministry/Missions. This is why our missions statement is Experience a loving relationship with God and other, Equip each other for a lifetime of following Christ, and Engage in the Mission of God both home and abroad. This is also our spiritual growth plan. If someone attends worship services, participates in a small group, and involves him/herself in ministry, they will grow spiritually. Everything we do is wrapped up in one of these things. Nothing more, nothing less.

When you figure out what God wants you to do, it will cause you to do church in ways you never thought you would. For instance, we wont have a large children’s ministry. Its not in the DNA of us. We also don’t have a lot of kids in our neighborhood. Kids will stay in service with us, and grow spiritually through some kids specific service elements, and through Christlike worship modeling. Eventually as we grow, we may add children’s and youth small groups. But we will cross that bridge when we get there. The point is that just because everyone else says you have to have it, doesn’t make it true.

You need to pray and find out what it is God wants from you. Don’t waste your time with good things that may work great in other places but that will reap no eternal dividends where you are and will cause unnecessary competition with other churches.

What’s He going to do through you?

 

Developing a Missional Strategy for Church Planting part 2

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In my last post I started a series on Developing a Missional Strategy for Church Planting. I started with the idea that you have to understand yourself before you can understand anything else. This is part two, understanding your neighborhood.

The entire idea of being missional is to relate to people exactly where they are, within the culture they live in. Unfortunately, too many American ministers are ignorant, either intentionally or unintentionally, of the variety of cultures in the United States. None of them would admit this however. They would acknowledge a narrow variety of cultures along socioeconomic and racial lines. But they would generally stop there. The truth is that cultures and subcultures exist WAY beyond those narrow definitions. According to research by Dr. Mel Ming,  not only has it never been that narrow, in the past 50 years the number of subcultures have exploded. In the 1950′s America had around 4,500 subcultures. Today, that number is closer to 45,000.

With that many subcultures, it is impossible to have a cookie-cutter, formulaic approach to ministry. There is no “American Culture” that every local church deals with. People do not think and act the same in the Bible Belt as they do on the coasts. Millennials do not think or act like Boomers. Gays in Houston do not think or act like Gays in New York. Blacks in Birmingham do not think and act like Blacks in Portland. Subcultures are different everywhere.  Local church ministry must be a reflection of Christ through an assimilation of culture. Every neighborhood will be different, and will have a number of subcultures in them. It’s your job, in order to effectively minister, to understand these subcultures. But in order to do so you need to do a few things.

  1. Understand the not all cultures are unhealthy and need to be changed.
    - I have heard it said, and you may be saying to yourself right now, “I don’t want to get to know or assimilate to the culture (world) around me. It is through the power of Christ in me that I am going to change culture!” This is a dangerous, arrogant, and ignorant approach that will make it extremely difficult for you to minister, and will probably embarrass the name of Christ in the long run. There is not a missionary in the world that shows up trying to change the culture of the people they are ministering to. They come to try to change their hearts. And not all cultures need to be changed. What is wrong with a culture of hardworking people? What is wrong with a culture that values education? What is wrong with a culture that is proud of its history? What’s wrong with a culture that values being involved in helping other and bettering society? I do believe, and I think the bible attests to this, that as we lead them to become followers of Christ, they will grow into the culture of Christ and that will inform their own culture, causing inevitable change
  2. Study the culture
    - You should start by doing a demographic study of the neighborhood and surrounding area you want to plant/minister in. You can pay to have these done from a number of missions sending agencies. Or, you can do like I did, and realize that everything you could want to know is found on the US Census website. You will want to know how many people there are, what their age make-up is, what their sexual and racial stats are, and what educational and financial compositions exist. All of these things inform your ministry approach. For instance, we have only 17% of our population that is under 18 years old. Right at 78% of our neighborhood consists of 1-2 person households, and they are not single parent homes. So, knowing that information it would be a waste of time, energy, and finances for us to launch with a large, well resourced childrens ministry, even though most church plant experts say that its necessary. Those same church plant experts also acknowledge that the vast majority of their planting experience and plants they have overseen where in suburban neighborhoods with large family networks. Knowing the make-up of your neighborhood will inform you as to the types of ministries you need to do.
  3. Get involved.
    - You have got to get involved with what the community is doing. A lot of people make the mistake of jumping into a community and starting new initiatives that the neighborhood does not need. You would be much better served to participate in what the community is already doing. This will do a number of things. One, it will demonstrate to the community that you are concerned about the same things they are, which is an instant bridge builder and will open doors for further conversation. Secondly, it will inform you of the values and tendencies of the the neighborhood. When you serve beside people they will show and tell you who they are and what they think. Thirdly, it will provide you information that you would not otherwise have. There is some valuable information that you would never find out just through demographic studies. I am particularly thinking of marketing and advertising. Just by participating in these activities you are marketing and advertising for your ministry, but you will also find out what people respond to. Some communities respond really well to mailers, doorhangers, and fliers. But some communities do not. Conversations with people will let you know. This will save you a lot of effort and A LOT of money!

So get to know your neighborhood and your neighbors. Reflect the culture of Christ among the cultures of the earth. It will make all the difference and open up doors to minister to people that you never had before!

 

Developing a Missional Strategy for Church Planting part 1

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The term missional has become a huge buzzword in the church world over the past few years, and in no place more than church planting circles. Basically, the term missional means to look at your ministry context like a missionary would, having a purpose for what you are doing within a plan tailored for the community in which you are doing it. Missionaries have approached their mission fields for years using this strategy. They spend considerable amounts of time looking for redemptive analogies, which are stories or traditions within a culture that they can relate to and use to share the gospel. This practice dates all the way back to the Apostle Paul, who used a redemptive analogy when speaking to the Greeks on Mars Hill. It is my opinion, and that of notable church growth/evangelism experts like Dr. Ed Stetzer, that every American church, whether a plant or 100 years old should adopt this type of strategy in the life of their churches.

For two years now I have been in the process of planting a new church in Houston, TX. From the beginning I have been doing everything I can to take a missional approach to ministry here. I thought it may be helpful to some out there who are feeling the draw to church planting or revitalization to hear my process of how I have gone about developing our missional strategy. So, over the next few weeks I will be posting five steps to developing a missional strategy for church planting. I believe that these steps may also serve to help any minister in any situation. Hope this is helpful!

1) Understanding Yourself

The first thing you need to do in developing a missional strategy for your church is to understand yourself. You have got to take a long, hard, honest look at yourself. Do you know you? I mean, do you really know you? Have you ever stopped and taken a personality profile? Strength finder? Spiritual gift assessment? What are your strengths? What are your weaknesses? How are you using your strengths? How are you working through your weaknesses? You have got to understand you!

No this probably seems over existential, but it is nevertheless true. You have got to know who you are going into it in order to ever understand the what, how, when, and why of it. And the truth is, the who you think you are will be challenged everyday. Your strengths will be tested, your weaknesses exposed. And your responses to all of this will greatly impact the next four steps of the journey. You had better evaluate your maturity level and truly assess your ability to take criticism, your desire to continue learning, and your tenacity in the face of adversity.

I pride myself on being a pretty good preacher. And yes, I meant to say pride. Whereas preaching is a strength, the pride I have in that ability is a weakness I am working through. But I know enough to know that I can always use improvement. So after every message I always ask my team to evaluate it. During our second preview service, my talk BOMBED! I was using an iPad for the first time and I had never worked through how to keep it in my hands and it not be distracting as I talked with my hands as I do. I also made a comment that was meant to be funny and cute that some took as off-color and distasteful. When it was all over, and I asked my team about it, they did what they are supposed to do and what I have empowered them to do, let me have it! In that moment I had a choice to make about myself. Being the most experience preacher of all of them, was I to say they didn’t know what they were talking about and disregard their comments without thought? Or was I to take it to heart, swallow my pride, and do better next time? Thank the LORD I chose the latter.

Developing a missional strategy for the ministry you lead starts with you. Here are some tips I suggest in helping you help yourself

  • Read your bible daily. Not for study, devotionally. I know it seems simple and obvious, but its vital!
  • Pray without ceasing. I take the Craig Groeschel approach. I may never pray for more than 15-30 minutes at the most at one time, but I try to pray about everything a number of times throughout the day. Constant communication with God makes you into the you both you and He want you to be.
  • Have some responsibility partners. This goes beyond accountability. Its not just about the things your not supposed to do, but the things you should do. These are people that you live life with and are responsible to you for your personal growth.
  • Read at least 1 book a month, preferable no less than 2-3. Read all different kinds. Broaden your vocabulary. Understand literary culture. Strengthen strengths and dissolve weaknesses. Read for personal edification and growth, but also for enjoyment.
  • Continue learning. Do a masters degree. Be involved in a leadership cohort. Take piano lessons. Continue to develop you mind and keep it sharp so that God can use it to do things you never imagined before.
  • . You need rest. There is an old adage for preachers that says, “Its better to burn out than burn up!” It may be better, but its best to do neither! God commands rest from the beginning. And whether you want to admit it or not, you need it. Take your vacations. Take a day off a week to do something different than what you normally do. Rest. Enjoy your family and friends. Play golf… (though some would find no rest there at all.)

I don’t have all the answers, but this is what has worked for me. You worry about you and God first, and everything else then has a chance to fall into place. You just have to get you out of the way!

 

Harry Potter: An example of Friendship, Family, and Love

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$168.5 million dollars…

I want that number to have a chance to sink in. That’s lottery money. That’s the kind of money that neither you or I will ever see our lifetimes. That’s more than the GDP of some developing countries. And that is how much Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, Part 2 grossed in its first three days in the box office, shattering all previous opening day and opening weekend records.

Some of that money was mine. I was there, at midnight, the night it opened. I was back again on Sunday night. I admit it, I am a fan. I own all the movies, and have both read and own all of the books. They have my nerdy flare. And so I enjoy them.

Beyond my leanings towards all things nerdy (i.e. Star Wars, Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, Transformers, Harry Potter, etc.), the phenomena that is Harry Potter cannot be ignored. Its hard to believe that seven books, the first of which was released nearly 15 years ago, by a first-time author who was only trying to write a story for her children, turned into the fastest selling books series in history selling over 450 million copies in 67 languages. Not only that, it spawned eight movies grossing billions, and the entire brand has a current estimated worth of $15 billion.

As believers in Christ, it could be easy for us to dismiss this all as the once again silly and Godless leanings of the world. They are witches and wizards relying on personal and mystic powers instead of the power of God. Isn’t it just like the world to look for power elsewhere?

Yes, it is. It is like the world to look for power elsewhere. But shouldn’t it be just like us to find God elsewhere?

The picture I attached to this blog is of the three main characters of the series, Harry Potter (played by Daniel Radcliffe), Hermione Grainger (played by Emma Watson), and Ron Weasley (played by Rupert Grint). I used this picture because it best illustrates what this story is really all about, the best of people. The wizarding world was merely a backdrop to an even greater story. The author, J.K. Rowling, could have chosen any scenario to place her story in and it would have been successful; military school, fire academy, seminary, because her story is not dependent on the magic. It’s dependent on the great qualities of our loving God which shines through us all:

Friendship

Family

Loyalty

Courage

Love

You see, the story isn’t about Harry Potter. Its about Harry, Hermione, and Ron. Its about the three of them working through and building lasting friendships that will see them through anything. A number of times in various ways these three bare each other’s burdens. They care for each other when they are sick. They buy for each other when they are poor. They comfort each other when they experience loss and heart ache.  The thing that keeps me coming back and reading the books and watching the movies again and again has nothing to do with magic. It has everything to do with that innate part of me, given by God to be in relationship with others. The most powerful thing in all of the Potter series is not Avada Kadavra, the killing curse, but the friendship of those three kids!

As believers we are all a part of the family of God. We are also instructed to be faithful to our families. The Potter series illustrates this beautifully. Potter is faithful and obedient to his aunt and uncle who raise him, even in the face of their hatred towards him for being different. The Weasleys show love and affection, constantly working hard to make sure that everyone in their family of eight is cared for emotionally and materially. The Graingers, who are not magical either, support their daughter in her endeavors, and when the time comes, out of her great love for them and desire to keep them safe, Hermione wipes their memories of her in order to protect them from evil. Beyond their blood-families, they have extended families that they show loyalty to. Family is something that we believers should love and cherish when it is found.

Finally, love is the cornerstone of this series. When evil approached Harry as an infant, it was the love of his mother, who sacrificed herself for him that allowed him to live. It was the love that he had for his students that ultimately led to the death of the school’s headmaster, Albus Dumbledore, in order to keep his students safe. It was the love of his best friend that allowed Professor Snape to play a part he did not want to play and ultimately die to protect her son, Harry. It was the love he had for his friends that led Harry into the woods to die to save his friends. Sacrificial love is the bedrock of this series, and constantly illustrated as Christ said, “Greater love has no man than he who lays down his life for his friends.”

Some of you will undoubtedly say that I have blinded myself or concocted these thoughts in an effort to justify my enjoyment in this otherwise demonic series. And itis your right to have that opinion. In my opinion, it is merely literature. Literature however which illustrates the best qualities given to us by a God that exhibits the same qualities. I hope that if you choose to read these books and/or watch the films that you will see them as I see them, a reminder of all that is great that God has given us. I hope that they will help you appreciate the gifts of friendship, family, and love that are present in your life. I hope they will inspire to you courage and loyalty in life’s most pressing times. These are God’s gifts to us, once again illustrated to my by the Boy-Who-Lived…

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